tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1175684769476781639.post6902908308056223267..comments2023-10-31T09:19:18.737-07:00Comments on Organized Chaos: at a lossorganized chaoshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18050635225751382130noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1175684769476781639.post-64397019280116508512011-04-12T15:17:51.194-07:002011-04-12T15:17:51.194-07:00If your gentle redirections are helping, and if th...If your gentle redirections are helping, and if that's the intervention the family is suggesting, it may be that that is helping already. If it does, great, if not, look into some other options.<br /><br />For example, it strikes me that family therapy might be a good recommendation, if it's available, especially through the hospital--to discuss the feelings and what to do when they come up, whether they are from organic feelings or the result of chemicals pounding his system. The primary goal here would be to provide understanding and unconditional love, and secondarily to work with Magical to see what he thinks will help him when he's feeling that way. Kids are often more articulate about these things than we give them credit for. <br /><br />And it seems like his behavior is more typical of children with mood disorders; if there is a psychologist or special education teacher who has background in mood disorders (anxiety, bipolar, depression, oppositional defiant disorder, etc.), s/he is probably very experienced at dealing with kids who have uncontrollable emotions. Some options that come to mind might be allowing him a safe place/outlet to express those angry feelings (whether they are emotionally/situationally sourced or simply chemically generated), ways to keep him from hurting himself or others if he lashes out physically, and ways to redirect. <br /><br />My heart goes out to him, to his family, and to you. Bright blessings as you continue your work.Johannanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1175684769476781639.post-41790929043932920262011-04-12T13:43:39.495-07:002011-04-12T13:43:39.495-07:00Why is a person - young, old, no matter - who is s...Why is a person - young, old, no matter - who is suffering from a really bad cancer ... why is that person even expected to control his anger, especially if it's chemically induced? I have never had chemo, but from what I understand it is terrible and something no one has an easy time with. Perhaps it would be more helpful for the family to consider that he is offering them a chance to express unconditional love, an opportunity to continue to put themselves aside and simply be there for him. I'm sure his cancer has already required more of them than they thought they had to give, but it seems to me that more is being asked, including their understanding that although he may not be able to use nice words or otherwise be sensitive to them, he is still the little boy they love - a little boy who really needs them to totally love him now.M.H. Rossihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18441291645784217315noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1175684769476781639.post-11554324448388251652011-04-12T06:48:35.042-07:002011-04-12T06:48:35.042-07:00I do not know of anything to help off the top of m...I do not know of anything to help off the top of my head, but you might want to check out the Books That Heal Kids Blog http://booksthathealkids.blogspot.com/ <br />She has books for just about every topic - I hope you find something that helps!Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14100461955993068676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1175684769476781639.post-2653359858885001162011-04-11T18:32:48.014-07:002011-04-11T18:32:48.014-07:00I've never left a comment before, but I've...I've never left a comment before, but I've really been enjoying your blog and your enthusiasm for your job. (I also teach special ed.)I have no words of wisdom on this subject of Magic and his anger, but it certainly breaks my heart. Watching a child explode in anger and become more and more irrational, is so heartbreaking. Sending thoughts your way.Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13336697721939377126noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1175684769476781639.post-30441956902478920882011-04-11T18:24:08.525-07:002011-04-11T18:24:08.525-07:00Is there any resource at the hospital where the ch...Is there any resource at the hospital where the child is being treated? It is common procedure to assign a hospital social worker to a child's case; can anyone in the family ask the treating physician's office how to access that help? If one hasn't been assigned, the family can ask for one with familiarity in chemo-induced psychosis. It's going to be easier for the family and impossible for you to directly help, considering HIPPA rules.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com